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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The link between health of the mind and body is not a new discovery. It seems like common sense but, unfortunately, it&#8217;s something that many of us forget; mental and physical health are both integral to the whole health of the person. The importance of balance between mind and body was understood by ancient Chinese [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The link between health of the mind and body is not a new discovery. It seems like common sense but, unfortunately, it&#8217;s something that many of us forget; mental and physical health are both integral to the whole health of the person.</p>
<p>The importance of balance between mind and body was understood by ancient Chinese medicine, which viewed holistic health as a yin-yang dynamic &#8211; placing emphasis on balance for a healthy life.</p>
<p>The fact is that our lives are in a constant state of change. Life is not static; it changes with every moment. ‘Our levels of rest, stress, and nutrition are constantly shifting. Whether we realise it or not, we are constantly altering ourselves so that we feel more grounded and whole.’<a href="#_ftn1" name="_ftnref1"><sup>[1]</sup></a></p>
<p>Of course, we all struggle to maintain that necessary balance but it’s important to remind ourselves that it’s OK to lose our footing. Equally important is the reminder that we can find that balance once again.</p>
<p>When we are struggling or feeling lost, confused or out of balance, it’s easy to become overwhelmed by feelings of negativity and pessimism, and believe that the world is working against us.</p>
<p>However, if we take a step back and foster a sense of curiosity about our feelings, we can begin to ask ourselves why we might be feeling a certain way.</p>
<p>Many of us are guilty of blaming our feelings on external circumstances. We might blame our boss for causing us stress, or a spouse or friend for not listening to us in a time of need. However, blame is rarely fruitful. Instead, it is worth exploring our internal environment and figuring out what might be happening within, and how that could be impacting our mental health and wellbeing.</p>
<p>Throughout this blog, we will consider the relationship between mind and body as it relates to mental health, and we will look at proven methods for improving our mental health with a physical health approach.</p>
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<h3><strong>The Importance of Exercise</strong></h3>
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<p>We live in a time where both physical and mental difficulties are met with almost immediate medical intervention. Unfortunately, many medications carry harmful or adverse side effects. This is not to say that one should not take medication if it is needed, but there are alternatives and preventative measures one can take in dealing with mental and physical illnesses, one of those being regular exercise. There is, in fact, evidence to suggest that exercise may be an intervention often neglected when it comes to mental health care.<a href="#_ftn2" name="_ftnref2"><sup>[2]</sup></a></p>
<p>Common mental health issues, like <a href="http://khironhouse.dev.fl9.uk/treatment/anxiety/">anxiety</a> and <a href="http://khironhouse.dev.fl9.uk/treatment/depression/">depression</a>, have been proven to be reduced by doing aerobic exercises such as jogging, swimming, cycling, walking, gardening, and dancing.<a href="#_ftn3" name="_ftnref3"><sup>[3]</sup></a> In her article, Guszowska proposes that the reduction in these issues, and the reported improvement in mood, is due to improved blood circulation to the brain, specifically the hypothalamic-pituitary adrenal (HPA) axis. This influences a person’s physiological reactivity to stress.’<a href="#_ftn4" name="_ftnref4"><sup>[4]</sup></a></p>
<p>According to <a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1365-2850.2004.00751.x" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Callaghan</a>, exercise improves mental health by ‘reducing anxiety, depression, and negative mood, and by improving self-esteem and cognitive function.<a href="#_ftn5" name="_ftnref5"><sup>[5]</sup></a></p>
<p>The myriad of health benefits &#8211; both physical and mental &#8211; resulting from regular exercise should not be underestimated. Some of these benefits include:</p>
<ul>
<li>Reduced stress.</li>
<li>Improved sleep.</li>
<li>Increased libido.</li>
<li>Improvements in mood.</li>
<li>Increased energy.</li>
<li>Increased stamina.</li>
<li>Reduced tiredness.</li>
<li>Reduced cholesterol levels.</li>
</ul>
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<h3><strong>Meditation</strong></h3>
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<p>Yoga and meditation are commonly known to promote deep breathing and the relief of stored physical tension, which can translate to emotional tension. By incorporating yoga and meditation practices into your daily routine, you allow your mind and body to relax which, in turn, mediates the adverse effects of stress.<a href="#_ftn6" name="_ftnref6"><sup>[6]</sup></a></p>
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<h3><strong>How Diet Influences our Mental Health</strong></h3>
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<p>How we nourish our bodies has been found to strongly correlate to our mental health and wellbeing, according to a study published in 2014.<a href="#_ftn7" name="_ftnref7"><sup>[7]</sup></a> The study examined behavioural factors relating to mental health, and found that consistently correlating behaviour was the level of consumption of fruits and vegetables. The study involved almost 14,000 participants aged 16 and over, including both men and women. It was found that higher consumption of nutrient-rich foods like fruits and vegetables was associated with ‘increased odds of high mental well-being and reduced odds of low mental wellbeing.’<a href="#_ftn8" name="_ftnref8"><sup>[8]</sup></a></p>
<p>The aforementioned study notes that mental health and wellbeing constitutes more than just the lack of illness, disease, or psychiatric pathology.<a href="#_ftn9" name="_ftnref9"><sup>[9]</sup></a> It is also concerned with positivity, optimism, emotional resilience, positive interpersonal relationships, positive functioning, and a sense of agency and autonomy.<a href="#_ftn10" name="_ftnref10"><sup>[10]</sup></a></p>
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<h3><strong>Serotonin</strong></h3>
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<p>Our mental health and wellbeing is largely influenced by a neurotransmitter, or chemical messenger, known as serotonin. Serotonin helps us in regulating our sleep and appetite, inhibiting pain, and mediating our moods.<a href="#_ftn11" name="_ftnref11"><sup>[11]</sup></a> Though it is released in the brain, up to 95% of our serotonin is produced in the gastrointestinal tract, which is lined with about 100 million nerve cells. The functionality of these nerve cells and the production of serotonin is greatly influenced by the good bacteria within an area of the intestine known as the microbiome. It makes sense, then, that the quality of food that we introduce into our gut greatly influences our mental wellbeing, which is dependent on sufficient levels of serotonin.</p>
<p>Studies and research aren’t necessary when it comes to understanding the positive impact a nutrient-rich diet will have on your mind and body so mental health will also be improved. You can discover the beneficial effects yourself by increasing your intake of healthy foods and reducing your intake of unhealthy, highly processed foods. Notice your mood and energy levels, and any shifts that happen as a result of your dietary improvements.</p>
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<h5>Sources:</h5>
<p><a href="#_ftnref1" name="_ftn1"><sup>[1]</sup></a> Spencer, J., 2008. Food for thought: the role of dietary flavonoids in enhancing human memory, learning and neuro-cognitive performance. <em>Proceedings of the Nutrition Society</em>, 67(2).</p>
<p><a href="#_ftnref2" name="_ftn2"><sup>[2]</sup></a> Callaghan, P., 2004. Exercise: a neglected intervention in mental health care?. <em>Journal of Psychiatric and Mental Health Nursing</em>, 11(4).</p>
<p><a href="#_ftnref3" name="_ftn3"><sup>[3]</sup></a> Guszkowska M.. Effects of exercise on anxiety, depression and mood [in Polish] Psychiatr Pol. 2004;38:611–620.</p>
<p><a href="#_ftnref4" name="_ftn4"><sup>[4]</sup></a> Guszkowska M.. Effects of exercise on anxiety, depression and mood [in Polish] Psychiatr Pol. 2004;38:611–620.</p>
<p><a href="#_ftnref5" name="_ftn5"><sup>[5]</sup></a> Callaghan, P., 2004. Exercise: a neglected intervention in mental health care?. <em>Journal of Psychiatric and Mental Health Nursing</em>, 11(4).</p>
<p><a href="#_ftnref6" name="_ftn6"><sup>[6]</sup></a> Desai, M., Kapadia, M. and Parikh, R., 2019. <em>Yoga And Meditation In Promoting Mental Health</em>. [ebook] Department of Psychiatry, Jaslok Hospital and Research Center, Mumbai, India. Available at: &lt;https://www.actascientific.com/ASNE/pdf/ASNE-02-0100.pdf&gt; [Accessed 29 May 2020].</p>
<p><a href="#_ftnref7" name="_ftn7"><sup>[7]</sup></a> Stranges, S., Samaraweera, P., Taggart, F., Kandala, N. and Stewart-Brown, S., 2014. Major health-related behaviours and mental well-being in the general population: the Health Survey for England. <em>BMJ Open</em>, [online] 4(9). Available at: &lt;https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/4/9/e005878&gt; [Accessed 29 May 2020].</p>
<p><a href="#_ftnref8" name="_ftn8"><sup>[8]</sup></a> Stranges, S., Samaraweera, P., Taggart, F., Kandala, N. and Stewart-Brown, S., 2014. Major health-related behaviours and mental well-being in the general population: the Health Survey for England. <em>BMJ Open</em>, [online] 4(9). Available at: &lt;https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/4/9/e005878&gt; [Accessed 29 May 2020].</p>
<p><a href="#_ftnref9" name="_ftn9"><sup>[9]</sup></a> Stranges, S., Samaraweera, P., Taggart, F., Kandala, N. and Stewart-Brown, S., 2014. Major health-related behaviours and mental well-being in the general population: the Health Survey for England. <em>BMJ Open</em>, [online] 4(9). Available at: &lt;https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/4/9/e005878&gt; [Accessed 29 May 2020].</p>
<p><a href="#_ftnref10" name="_ftn10"><sup>[10]</sup></a>Stranges, S., Samaraweera, P., Taggart, F., Kandala, N. and Stewart-Brown, S., 2014. Major health-related behaviours and mental well-being in the general population: the Health Survey for England. <em>BMJ Open</em>, [online] 4(9). Available at: &lt;https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/4/9/e005878&gt; [Accessed 29 May 2020].</p>
<p><a href="#_ftnref11" name="_ftn11"><sup>[11]</sup></a> MD, E., 2015. <em>Nutritional Psychiatry: Your Brain On Food &#8211; Harvard Health Blog</em>. [online] Harvard Health Blog. Available at: &lt;https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/nutritional-psychiatry-your-brain-on-food-201511168626&gt; [Accessed 29 May 2020].</p>
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		<title>5 Amazing Ways Mindfulness &#038; Meditation Can Assist Those with Anxiety</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2018 13:40:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The following is an excerpt from a person’s story on living with anxiety, posted on the Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA) website: “Anxiety for me is extreme negativity, a general sense of aching. Not like a muscle aching, but an aching in my soul. It makes it difficult to appreciate myself.” Let’s face [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The following is an excerpt from a person’s story on living with anxiety, posted on the Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA) website:</span></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Anxiety for me is extreme negativity, a general sense of aching. Not like a muscle aching, but an aching in my soul. It makes it difficult to appreciate myself.”</span></i></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Let’s face it – anxiety can be downright crippling sometimes. Rumination, excessive worrying, sweaty palms, heart racing, dizziness and more can make anxiety a nightmare come true for many of us. If you have found it difficult to manage your anxiety, you’re not alone; the ADAA states that approximately 40 million adults in the United States experience anxiety – </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">wow</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">, that’s a lot! For many with anxiety disorders, medication is a vital component. Depending on your needs, holistic activities such as mindfulness and meditation can be beneficial either alone or alongside your medicinal plan. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mindfulness and meditation have become more widely practiced in the United States now than ever before. There are so many amazing benefits of mindfulness and meditation that have been found through numerous research studies, especially for those with anxiety:</span></p>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Quieting the overactive mind</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Detaching from thoughts that once had control over you</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">New pathways are formed in the brain, opening a healthier way of thinking</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">With a calmer mind, the body can relax, too – which means you may experience less chronic pain, digestive issues, and more</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Practice can be done at anytime, anywhere, with no cost</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">According to the National Public Radio (NPR), meditation has been shown to improve conditions for those with anxiety, depression, and pain, and that’s just after a review of 47 studies published in the journal </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">JAMA International Medicine</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">. What’s even better is that mindfulness and meditation are non-invasive practices, meaning that you can feel safe and comfortable, with no intrusion of needles. For many, however, holistic practices such as these work best alongside medication and other interventions for optimal outcomes.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you haven’t already, speak with a professional from a reputable treatment center to learn more about how you can incorporate mindfulness and meditation into your treatment program.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><b>Trauma is most often the root cause of many emotional, behavioral, and mood disorders. Until you can heal your trauma, you will find great difficulty finding the healing you need to live a life of recovery, health, and wellness. At Khiron House, we provide effective residential treatment and cutting edge therapies which seek to transform mind, body, and spirit from the effects of trauma. Call us today for information. UK: 020 3811 2575 (24 hours) USA: (866) 801 6184 (24 hours).</b></p>
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		<title>Can You Create Your Own Family This Holiday Season</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Sep 2018 21:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes, for distinct reasons, our biological families become detached from our lives. Whether part of our control or not, this split in the dynamic of those we grew up around or were raised by can be painful – for many, the holiday season brings back sad feelings, especially if loved ones are missed but are [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sometimes, for distinct reasons, our biological families become detached from our lives. Whether part of our control or not, this split in the dynamic of those we grew up around or were raised by can be painful – for many, the holiday season brings back sad feelings, especially if loved ones are missed but are not longer around. Whether you’re in recovery for mental illness or addiction, the holiday season is a special time to really hone in on your self-care. Eating healthy, getting plenty of exercise, and treating yourself to new activities and people conducive to your recovery are excellent ways of showing yourself some love. This holiday season, it’s about creating your own family – one that uplifts you, supports you, and will be there for you when times get hard.</span></p>
<h3><strong>The following are some excellent tips for creating your own family this holiday season:</strong></h3>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><strong><i>See what’s going on at your treatment center.</i></strong><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Do they have an event that you can attend to meet others in recovery who may not have family? Talk to a leader in your program to learn more about holiday opportunities.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><strong><i>Host your own get together</i></strong><span style="font-weight: 400;">. Invite those you’ve met in your program to get to know them better and celebrate. After all – when it comes to recovery, you’re all in this together.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><strong><i>Recognize that family can be one person </i></strong><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>– even a pet</strong>. Many people have this grand envision that families all over the world, of at least 10 people are more, are getting together in harmony. This isn’t true! In fact, more and more people are creating their own families – even if for a brief while it only includes your partner, your pet, or a good friend.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><strong><i>Celebrate your own progress</i></strong><span style="font-weight: 400;">. One of the most important people whom you need to get to know and love is…..you guessed it….</span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> yourself</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">. There is absolutely nothing wrong with spending time alone this holiday season, playing some “feel-good” music and cooking up a beautiful holiday dinner that you can eat as leftovers for the next week. Many people do this, and it can even make you a stronger person in doing so.</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A 2016 study published in the journal </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Substance Abuse</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> highlighted the importance of social support in building one’s sense of community in recovery. Find people who want you to succeed, and who are trying to push forward in their recovery journeys as well. You never know who may become part of your family until you try.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Sep 2018 17:57:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>We all have moments of hopelessness time and again. If we have lived through traumatic events in our lives, our propensity toward hopelessness is greater than others. Trauma has a tendency to rob us of our ability to have hope. Before a traumatic event occurs in our life, we might have high hopes for ourselves, [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We all have moments of hopelessness time and again. If we have lived through traumatic events in our lives, our propensity toward hopelessness is greater than others. Trauma has a tendency to rob us of our ability to have hope. Before a traumatic event occurs in our life, we might have high hopes for ourselves, our future, others, their futures, and the state of the world. Hope might be an integral part of our faith, religion, or spiritual practices which give us guidance in our lives. Trauma, however, interrupts everything which feels normal in our lives. We may or may not experience our trauma in a big way, meaning, the effects of our trauma may not be overwhelming or obvious. Regardless, we are affected, and our view of the world is greatly affected as a result. Hope, our treasured outlook on life, is many times broken by trauma, which leads to a devastating loss. Losing hope and any sense of hope for a brighter, better world, is a dark, lonely, scary, and sad place to be. Until our trauma, we didn’t know that our personal world could get quite so hopeless. For too many, living in hopelessness lasts for a long time. Feelings of hopelessness can persist, leading to depression, anxiety, and more. </span></p>
<h3><b>Hopelessness Can Be Transformed</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As much as hopelessness might be a part of trauma and living with the manifestations of trauma, finding hope, restoring hope, and becoming more hopeful is part of recovery from trauma. Through treatment, therapy, and our ongoing recovery, hope becomes part of our lives once more. Each moment we find healing, we find a little more hope in ourselves and in the world around us. We realize that our traumatic experiences, no matter how terrible, don’t place the rest of our lives in a vacuum. Trauma recovery takes our life from a dull greyscale into full color, transforming our perceptions from limited to unlimited, absolute to infinity. </span></p>
<h3><b>How Can I Start Finding Hope Today?</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The very prospect of healing from trauma should inspire hope. When your mental and physical health have been deeply affected by trauma it can be hard to hold onto hope for a long time until you find healing. Not every area of your life is hopeless. Look for hope where you find it most, even if it is external to you. Watch happy videos. Surround yourself with happy colors. Read inspiring stories of hope. All hope and all possibility is yours in recovery. A better life is waiting. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Stop the cycle of merry-go-round treatment and find the solution you’re looking for in trauma treatment. Through effective residential treatment, Khiron House helps you find the path you need toward health and wellness in recovery. For information, call us today. UK: 020 3811 2575 (24 hours). USA: (866) 801 6184 (24 hours).</strong></p>
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		<title>Will I Ever Be Stronger Than I Feel Right Now?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2018 17:53:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>You’re at perhaps one of the worst cross roads of your life. To say the least, you feel defeated. You might be feeling broken, wounded, struggling, hurting. Worse, you might be feeling like a failure, a loser, or some other awfully negative stereotype that society has cast on you for having difficulties in life. If [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You’re at perhaps one of the worst cross roads of your life. To say the least, you feel defeated. You might be feeling broken, wounded, struggling, hurting. Worse, you might be feeling like a failure, a loser, or some other awfully negative stereotype that society has cast on you for having difficulties in life. If you’ve suffered trauma in your life, this is normal. If you’ve suffered trauma in your life if you’ve never sought therapeutic treatment, this is normal. If you’ve suffered trauma in your life and you have sought therapeutic treatment, but you haven’t found a program which has helped you heal completely, this is normal. Trauma is pain. Trauma is deep, unmanageable, devastating pain. Until we completely heal our trauma, we cannot completely heal the pain which results from our trauma. Ongoing, we are completely affected by our trauma which influences what we do, how we do it, and how we feel. Reaching a “bottom” point in our lives over and over again is extremely common when we are operating at a deficit. Simply put, trauma creates a void in our life which affects how we live our life. Once we learn how to heal and fill that void, life becomes much more functional. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You will be stronger than you feel right now. Each day that you work on your trauma through therapy, treatment, and recovery, you will become stronger. With each tear you shed, each painful memory you walk through, each traumatic memory you reprogram, each moment of healing you bring to your body, mind, and spirit, you will grow stronger. Trauma is only as strong as we allow it to be. When we live our life without recovery from trauma, we allow trauma to have all of the power over our life. </span></p>
<h3><b>Finding Strength In Surrender</b></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Holding on to whatever we have to keep it together one day longer isn’t a sign of strength, though it certainly takes strength to keep going. There’s a spiritual paradox when it comes to strength. In order to find our greatest strength, we often have to surrender. Admitting that we don’t have the strength we need to operate at our best in life is one of our greatest moments of strength because we overcome the powerful components of shame, pain, and pride. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Save your pride for the moments that count. Ask for help today. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Stop the cycle of merry-go-round treatment and find the solution you’re looking for in trauma treatment. Through effective residential treatment, Khiron House helps you find the path you need toward health and wellness in recovery. For information, call us today. UK: 020 3811 2575 (24 hours). USA: (866) 801 6184 (24 hours).</strong></p>
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		<title>Kick Summer FOMO To The Curb</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Aug 2018 13:51:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Great expectations lead to great disappointments. Alexander Pope once said, “Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.” Summertime is supposed to be a time free of expectations and responsibilities, so that it can be full of possibility, spontaneity, and adventure. Sometimes, however, the expectation of having no expectations can come [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Great expectations lead to great disappointments. Alexander Pope once said, “Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.” Summertime is supposed to be a time free of expectations and responsibilities, so that it can be full of possibility, spontaneity, and adventure. Sometimes, however, the expectation of having no expectations can come at a price. More and more people are experiencing depression and anxiety during the summertime due to feeling as though the summer they are having is a disappointment because it doesn’t live up to the expectations of the </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">best summer ever</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">. Particularly toward the end of summer, the pressure to “live it up” feels especially high, like a timer is running out to have some kind of experience other than the one being had. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You don’t have to try and jam in a bunch of “epic” summer moments to qualify your summer as memorable. You don’t have to make your life seem or be anything other than what you want it to be or how it is. If you are living with symptoms of anxiety or depression due to the expectations of summer, there is something much deeper going on beneath the non-sun kissed surface of your seemingly summer deprived life. FOMO, the fear of missing out, comes from living in comparison. Comparison comes from thinking you are not good enough, that someone or something else is better than you; moreover, that you are missing something. Believing that there is something deficient in you is not something that you are born with- it is something that you are given over the course of your lifetime. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The best way to kick the fear of missing out to the curb is to stop thinking you are missing anything at all. Living in trauma recovery as a trauma survivor, just “stopping thinking” can be incredibly hard to do. Trauma takes away pieces of your life and can make you feel as if you will never be whole again. For years you might live under the belief that you can never be “fixed” or “completed” because you will always be “broken” by trauma. However, the longer you work toward your recovery, the more you will grow to understand you have nothing to fear about missing. Everything you have felt you are missing you are creating for yourself because you are a strong, courageous, empowered human being. Summer is just one of many seasons of life. You’re in recovery for a lifetime. All of life has the adventure of summer. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><b>Trauma is most often the root cause of many emotional, behavioral, and mood disorders. Until you can heal your trauma, you will find great difficulty finding the healing you need to live a life of recovery, health, and wellness. At Khiron House, we provide effective residential treatment and cutting edge therapies which seek to transform mind, body, and spirit from the effects of trauma. Call us today for information. UK: 020 3811 2575 (24 hours) USA: (866) 801 6184 (24 hours). </b></p>
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		<title>Learning To Cope In A World Of Uncertainty: Part One</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Aug 2018 13:45:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Pema Chodron is a Tibetan Buddhist Monk who has authored many popular self-help books rooted in her Buddhist roots. In Comfortable With Uncertainty, Chodron examines many different Buddhist principles and practices which help us release our attachment to what ultimately, as it is phrased in Buddhism, causes suffering. “The root of suffering,” Chodron explains, “is [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Pema Chodron is a Tibetan Buddhist Monk who has authored many popular self-help books rooted in her Buddhist roots. In </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Comfortable With Uncertainty</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">, Chodron examines many different Buddhist principles and practices which help us release our attachment to what ultimately, as it is phrased in Buddhism, causes suffering. “The root of suffering,” Chodron explains, “is resisting the certainty that no matter what the circumstances, uncertainty is all we truly have.” The only certainty we have, Chodron is saying, is uncertainty. Living in a way which attempts to resist this certainty by attaching to what is illusive certainty, results in suffering. We look for certainty in many different ways. If we are survivors of trauma, very often the ways we find certainty in our lives are damaging and destructive. We look for security and to be satiated in our quest for feeling as though we have control over an inevitable world. On this, Chodron expresses that “As long as we believe that there is something that will permanently satisfy our hunger for security, suffering is inevitable.” </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Through her insightful, easy to understand writings, Pema is touching on one of the most difficult yet important lessons we come upon in trauma recovery. Letting go of the past and letting go of the future is incredibly challenging. How do we let go of pain we feel so realistically in our minds, bodies, and spirits, but cannot actually hold onto with our hands? The frustration is so complex and real that it drives us to seek that tangibility somewhere else, namely security and certainty. Unfortunately, security and certainty can be deceiving. Like attempting to carry a fistful of sand, we hold our grip so tightly in a manner which prevents us from seeing the many ways even single grains of sand- single moments of security and certainty- are slipping through the cracks between our fingers. What we think we are clutching so dearly to is actually escaping us all of the time. We are only satisfied by the illusion of the captivity until we realize we don’t have all the control and certainty we were hoping for. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is very much the experience of living in trauma without living in recovery from trauma or seeking trauma healing through treatment. Try as we may to find safety and security, we end up looking for it in all the “wrong places”; moreover, the places which never provide us the security we need. Our reasons for seeking safety are innumerable and understandable, which we will look at in our next blog. Once we understand our attachment to these needs we can let them go- ultimately resulting in the peace and serenity we desperately crave. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><b>Trauma is most often the root cause of many emotional, behavioral, and mood disorders. Until you can heal your trauma, you will find great difficulty finding the healing you need to live a life of recovery, health, and wellness. At Khiron House, we provide effective residential treatment and cutting edge therapies which seek to transform mind, body, and spirit from the effects of trauma. Call us today for information. UK: 020 3811 2575 (24 hours) USA: (866) 801 6184 (24 hours). </b></p>
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		<title>Permission Granted: Removing Trauma From Your Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2018 13:39:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>It is said that the disease of alcoholism is progressive. Alcoholism is one of the many ways untreated trauma can manifest in our lives. Trauma itself, as well as in all of its forms, is also progressive. Without intervention and treatment, without developing a manner of living in trauma recovery, we allow the effects of [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It is said that the disease of alcoholism is progressive. Alcoholism is one of the many ways untreated trauma can manifest in our lives. Trauma itself, as well as in all of its forms, is also progressive. Without intervention and treatment, without developing a manner of living in trauma recovery, we allow the effects of trauma to progress in the control they have over our lives. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It is also said that recovery is progressive. Recovery is the way we live our lives to fight the progression of trauma effects and the effects of all of trauma’s manifestations. Living in recovery means living in a way that progresses our healing, progresses our trauma resolution efforts, and progresses our freedom from the imprisonment which trauma can create. If we care to progress our recovery, we have to live in such a way which disallows the effects of our trauma to progress. Sometimes that can mean removing trauma from our lives. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Of course, we cannot erase our memories, delete trauma from our muscles, or pretend like nothing ever happened and that said “nothing” has no effect on us, even though it never happened. Trauma is a part of our lives. Through recovery, trauma becomes part of the past so we can live in the present, instead of being a living past preventing us from being present. Unfortunately, there will be people in our lives who keep our trauma alive, continue acting in traumatizing ways, and challenge the sanctity of the safety we work hard to create in our trauma recovery. Removing trauma from our lives can mean more than living differently- it can mean living without certain people in our lives at all. If you have someone in your life who actively triggers your trauma, abuses you, or acts in traumatizing ways— </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">permission granted. You don’t have to live that way. </span></i></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Trauma recovery is about empowerment which benefits the greater good of your life and the lives of others. Having relationships which cause undue yet ongoing emotional distress doesn’t have to be part of your trauma recovery, especially if these relationships were part of your trauma. You have suffered long enough and are doing incredible work to end your suffering as much as possible. You have permission to live your life in a safe way which brings you peace and serenity. Together with your trauma therapist, you can eliminate relationships from your life which do not contribute to your recovery. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><b>Khiron House is the only private treatment center in the UK who independently publishes an annual report on outcomes. We believe in the treatment we’re providing because we see the results every single year. Effective residential treatment utilizing cutting edge treatment and therapy options puts an end to the roundabout revolving door of treatment many people suffer. For information on our programs, call UK: 020 3811 2575 (24 hours) USA: (866) 801 6184 (24 hours)</b></p>
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		<title>Change Is Contagious, But Not Guaranteed</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Aug 2018 13:35:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Making the decision to enter trauma recovery and take the negative effects of trauma out of your life has quantum effects. Such large life decisions carry weight which effect the entire world around you, as well as all of the people in your life. It may seem far-fetched, but it is a proven truth for [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Making the decision to enter trauma recovery and take the negative effects of trauma out of your life has quantum effects. Such large life decisions carry weight which effect the entire world around you, as well as all of the people in your life. It may seem far-fetched, but it is a proven truth for those in recovery. People can stay stuck in the patterns of their lives for their whole lives, even when those patterns do their lives a disservice. Dysfunction can and often does become comfortable. The fear of functionality becomes a dysfunction of its own and as a result people spend their lives avoiding what is ultimately the inevitable: change. Change is inarguably the only constant of living life as a human being on planet earth. Our very molecular makeup is changing every single moment of every single day, as is our planet. Yet the personal changes in our lives, more specifically, the ones we falsely believe we can control, stand out the most to us. Avoiding change is not about actually avoiding change. Avoiding change is about avoiding the normalcy of what life is and what life requires: going with the flow, living life on life’s terms, and coping efficiently. When we stop avoiding change, we stop avoiding life. We start living and we start seeing the way others live their lives much differently. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Your recovery is going to inspire many people in a variety of ways. The more people who are encouraged by your strength, confidence, and bravery, the more you will realize how transcendent what you are doing in trauma recovery truly is. If there is a particular person in your life, perhaps someone who is an abuser or a cause of trauma, you might find yourself thinking, </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">If I can change, so can they. If I can change, they can change, and we can have a happy, healthy, normal relationship again</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">. There is an unfortunate caveat to being a warrior of trauma recovery- just because we are choosing to recover and change, not everyone will. The fear of change is so great that </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">your changes</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> might inspire someone to feel even more afraid of confronting themselves and changing the way they live their life. As you grow, learn, heal, and evolve, you’ll see that certain people stay remarkably the same. How they treat you, how they treat themselves, may not change. One of the great powers which comes with the empowerment of trauma recovery is being able to choose who you want in your life. If someone continues to act in ways that are traumatizing, abusive, or intentionally triggering, you have the power to say “No more” and remove that area of trauma from your life. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We’ll discuss this more in our next blog. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><b>Khiron House is the only private treatment center in the UK who independently publishes an annual report on outcomes. We believe in the treatment we’re providing because we see the results every single year. Effective residential treatment utilizing cutting edge treatment and therapy options puts an end to the roundabout revolving door of treatment many people suffer. For information on our programs, call UK: 020 3811 2575 (24 hours) USA: (866) 801 6184 (24 hours).</b></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Aug 2018 12:47:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>“Secrets keep you sick” is one of the repeated adages of living in recovery, be it from addiction, trauma, or any other affliction of mental health. The theme song of the popular American television show, Pretty Little Liars sums up the punishment of keeping secrets succinctly. “Why when we do our darkest deeds do we [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Secrets keep you sick” is one of the repeated adages of living in recovery, be it from addiction, trauma, or any other affliction of mental health. The theme song of the popular American television show, </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Pretty Little Liars</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> sums up the punishment of keeping secrets succinctly. “Why when we do our darkest deeds do we tell? They burn in our brains become a living hell cause everyone tells everyone tells.” We keep secrets in the hopes that nobody finds out whatever it is our secret is about. What inspires us to keep a secret varies. Most often, secrets are rooted in fear, shame, and guilt. We’re ashamed of something, so we keep it a secret. We are guilty of something that we are ashamed of or we fear the punishment of, so we keep it a secret. We are afraid of the guilt or shame which might result if our secret got out, so we keep it a secret. Though the intention of secret-keeping seems a necessity of survival, holding onto the emotional energies of fear, guilt, and shame, will always result in toxicity. As the lyrics suggest, everyone tells their secrets. For those who are recovering from trauma, secrets may not be confessed or admitted verbally, but speak through their bodies, minds, and spirits in other ways. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Secrets do indeed keep you sick. Trauma recovery is all about resolving the anchors of the past which keep you tied to somewhere in time other than the present. Keeping secrets is like keeping our soul tethered to more moments of shame, blame, guilt, and fear, which extend beyond our trauma. Many of our trauma experiences include secret-keeping. Keeping secrets is often part of the abuse cycle, part of sexual assault, and witnessing violence. When we are forced to keep a secret, we are forced to deny the liberation of our authenticity. Secrets are small parts of our soul-experiences which we banish away in punishment. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The moment we choose to seek trauma recovery, we choose to release our secrets over time. Trauma recovery gives us the safety, security, and space we need to tell our secrets with confidence, heal the negativity associated with them, and let ourselves heal. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><b>Providing effective residential care and cutting edge treatments, seeking trauma recovery at Khiron House offers healing for many common mental health problems and manifestations of trauma. If you haven’t found the treatment solution you need to sustain a life of recovery, your journey is here waiting for you to begin. For information, please call UK: 020 3811 2575 (24 hours) USA: (866) 801 6184 (24 hours).</b></p>
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